Nia Dark and Lovely, a Black Escort in London

I was just reading Chevalier's post on prying, and it reminded me of something that happened recently with one of my regulars.

I am open with some of my clients, if I feel comfortable. I have a dinner date with one of my regular clients whenever he is in London.

I have mentioned here about how unsettled I feel about situations with clients that would be too close too comfort.

Most of my regular clients know more about me than my other clients, it is inevitable. Something happened recently with a regular client, that taught me a lesson, but was not something that I could have predicted.

We were catching up on what we both had been up to since we last met. X works all over the world, and has several homes in various countries. An ex partner of mine, used to live in one of the cities that X has a home in, and is in the same profession. I had never mentioned this to X before, but did at our last date. He asked me what my ex partner's name was, and I told him. I watched his face turn a dark shade of red, and then he nervously said that it was a small world. Clearly, he was very uncomfortable with this information, but I had no idea he would know my ex, when I told him.

I think I have lost him. His body language spoke volumes. He was one of my first clients, and I have seen him consistently since I started. I wonder whether I should have been open with him.

Such is life, I guess.

If it feels too close for comfort, it is time to call it a day.

Labels: Black escort, Chevalier, clients, London, Thoughts

Most escorts offer a dinner date package. It is normally from three to four hours which includes private time. It can vary from one to two hours private time, within the four hours. Each escort has their own individual package. I offer dinner dates, and occasionally will come across a client, who does not expect me to charge him for the time we take, to have the meal. This was one of the problems that I had with X. He would say at the start of a dinner date that we were friends, and he didn't expect me to charge him.

X, is so not my idea of a friend.

When I first started escorting, and went on my first dinner date, my client shortchanged me. I had assumed he looked at my site, and knew my fee. Big mistake on my part. I learned my lesson. I don't like having to remind clients of my fees, but there are so many con artists about, it is important to make things clear from the start. He was over from the US, to check on his business in the UK. Well mannered, well dressed, gave me the impression that he was not the sort of man that would do such a thing. Furthermore he was in his late sixties, and I guess I thought a man of his age would know better.I was fooled by his appearance. Mistake number two.

I was pretty relaxed the whole evening, and this was one of the few occasions where I did not take my payment upfront. In fact I counted the fee the following day,the reason being that I thought there was no way a man in his late sixties, in his line of business, and staying in a five star boutique hotel would con me. Mistake number three.

By the time I realised what had happened, he was on a flight back to New York. I believe what he did was intentional ,and deliberate. I recognise that I had a responsibility to check the money in front of him, and challenge him. Furthermore, when he asked about the dinner date, I should have reminded him of my fee, and not assumed he had looked at my site.

Sometimes the only way in which some people can learn, is from their mistakes. Oh how I have changed since then.

As Emilie says I will work for money not food.

I paid for college has been added to my sidebar, pay her a visit.

Labels: Black escort, clients, Emilie, Escorts, London, Thoughts

I binned an escalating regular client in 2005. X fell in love with me, and started to make demands on me. He would call me several times a day, to the point where he was blocking other callers from getting through to me. Then there were the constant remarks on how he felt about me escorting,whenever we met.Then there was the whole problem of terminating bookings on time, as it was too distressing for him to leave. He always referred to me as his mistress, but we had never made any arrangement.

Does this man know what keeping a mistress involves?

Show me the money honey.

Then he did something that was out of line. So I binned him.

He could not accept that I had binned him, and continued to contact me via phone and email, for over a year regularly. I ignored the calls and emails. Then he slowed down, but continued to make contact at intervals, pleading with me to make contact with him.

I have had the discussion, about clients falling in love with escorts, with Sarah Summers and other escort friends.Sarah has clients falling in love with her all the time. One friend wants all her clients to fall in love with her, and is okay with it. It is too much of a headache for me. I feel that when a client falls in love with an escort, it is a sign that an escort has done her job well. When the client starts to feel that he is not a client, and that he is in that special category, then you know you have done your job well. It is amusing when a client really believes that you are in love with him, and just don't want to admit it.

I must not burst that bubble, right?

Going back to X, he called me today, but with a new number, so I took the call.I didn't put the phone down on him, and heard him out. Guess what, he wanted to know why I didn't take his calls.A bit of the selective memory thing going on here.

*Here we go again*

I repeated what I had said years ago, and kept the conversation brief. He emailed me earlier this year, under another address, wanting me to communicate with him. I ignored the email.

My policy when things get out of control, is to cease all communication. Sadly, some people take longer than others to get this message. Some people don't get it at all.

I have a high tolerance level, but that does not mean that I don't have limits. Those of you who know me, are aware that I am easygoing, lighthearted, and relaxed, but I have boundaries. When those boundaries are crossed, that is it.

Since his call this afternoon, he has sent me a text.

What a drag!

Update

He has just sent me an email titled silence and slow tears. The contents say that age cannot wither me, nor custom stale my infinite variety.

He is sorry that he has been banished but still wants to meet me as a punter.

Readers can you see what I have to contend with???

He has made contact three times today, and will continue, all over again.

Labels: Black escort, clients, London, Sarahsummers, Thoughts

Beau sent me this lovely pic, which is so appropriate for this blog. Thanks Beau.

I was sitting in a cafe today, and a track came on by Santana. Whenever I hear that track, I can't stop thinking about Jacques. The track was something we always danced to ,whenever I saw him. I binned him, a while ago, but wonder how he is whenever I hear the track.

Dark Temptress has been added to my sidebar, pay her a visit. Have a good week.

Labels: Beau, Black escort, clients, Dark Temptress, London, Thoughts

A year ago a client called me up, and asked whether he could film me during the booking. I told him that was not possible. The same man calls me every two weeks since he made the request, leaving various messages.

The pest thinks I will see him, dream on.

Today I get an email from someone asking me whether he can take photos of me during the booking.

Hellooooooooooooooo!

I don't show my face on my site, so he thinks he can come and see me and I will say feel free to take all the pics you want.

Sarah Summers has a great post on how escorts are not social workers are we, I agree with her when she says some men think we are stupid. I have also had emails where clients who have not met me, say they just want to come see me, talk, nothing else, for no charge.

Things will start to get complicated if I have to check potential clients for cameras before a booking.

Check that they have not stolen my knickers.

Clients who arrive and say they have to go to the cashpoint after the booking as they had no time to get the money. I send them back anyway as my rule is payment upfront. Anyone who does not respect my T&C's is shown the door. This is rare, and has happened twice in three years. The majority of my clients know the rules, and respect them.

Check that they have not taken Viagra and recreational drugs together.

When things get complicated for me it isn't fun.

Labels: Black escort, clients, London, Sarahsummers, Thoughts

I have just come back from lunch with Beau.

He had asked me to guess what his handle was on the Punternet Messageboard, and I guessed it right away from his writing style, so he promised to buy me lunch when he was next in London.

As I mentioned here Beau and I have a unique relationship,as I have never been in this situation with any of my clients. He was a client, and we both decided because of our friendship not to have sex together. As we both normally would not sleep with our friends. The friendship that I have with Beau has evolved, and we are able to share our feelings about life, our families, friends, backgrounds and all that stuff, and we are in contact several times a week. He is such a warm, kind, compassionate, sensitive man.

I never took Beau's blog seriously, and thought that he wrote it for fun, and didn't believe for a minute that he was interested in BDSM. There was no hint of it in our meeting, and he never discussed it, and then I saw his blog, but thought it was fun. That was until Beau started to recount some salacious stories, that got me thinking . I realised that he was serious. BDSM is not my thing at all, I am as vanilla as you can get, and Beau loves to wind me up about this, which is funny. I refer to him as Master Beau, and he refers to me as Vaniaa. He has educated me, and I have more insight into his fetish.

We met for lunch, but Beau wanted to take me to Waterstones to show me a book before lunch. You all know I cannot go into a bookshop without buying a book. I had no idea what Beau wanted to show me . Surprise surprise, a BDSM book that had been banned in the sixties.

We had a great lunch, with the people on both sides of our table leaning back to listen to Beau's salacious stories. Thanks for lunch and the chocolates Beau.

Labels: Beau, Black escort, clients, London, Thoughts

I will be out of touch from Saturday till Tuesday midday. I will not have access to my emails, and my phone will be off.

I am going away with Roger for a few days.

1. Packed all my high heels
2. Got all my corsets out of the attic.
3. Taking all the black clothing that I possess, as requested.
4. Have a sufficient supply of condoms
5. Hope I don't poke his eyes out with my killer heels, as he likes them on 24/7.
6. Going to be fun sleeping with them on
7. Feel like this is going to be a blast with all this dressing up.

I am looking forward to seeing him again, and having loads of time to chat, yes chat, among other things. Roger and I can talk and talk and talk, but he knows how to use his pipe.

I have discovered some stuff that I didn't know I owned packing for this trip. Venturing into the attic has been useful.

Must dash have to get into Goth mode, and need to get a manicure and pedicure.

Have a great weekend.

Labels: Black escort, clients, London

I saw Monty earlier this week. I first met him when I started escorting a few years ago.


The first conversation that I had with him, when he made contact, felt like an interview. I was amused, and puzzled at the time, as I wondered why he needed so much information for an hour's booking. I have seen him several times since, for dinner dates, and can see that he needed to check out whether we were compatible.

There are a number of rituals that Monty goes through whenever he makes contact. He calls me, and asks me whether I remember him. He is one of a number of my clients that I am unlikely to forget, because of who he is, and how he is. So, my usual response is that I could never forget him.

When I arrive at Monty's flat, he apologises for not having seen me in a while. This is not necessary, but I find it sweet. He does not live in London, even though he has a property here. He then starts to tell me, that he should see a lot more of me.

Monty is warm, charming, and well mannered. I am a sucker for charm, and enjoy being around him.

We have a catch up on what has been going on for both of us, and Monty cannot believe that I remember all the stuff that he has told me over the years.

We were lying down in his living room, in various states of undress, and he said that he was having so much fun that there was no need to do anything else. That is a first for Monty, but I thought if that is what he wants, it is cool with me.

Within minutes, he mentioned that we needed to proceed to the bedroom. Monty is the sort of gentleman who could be defined as stiff upper lip, if you saw him on the street. He went to the right schools, and universities, and has been brought up well. However behind closed doors, he is playful, sensitive and fun, and this is a major turn on for me.

I was in cowgirl and he told me that I was marriage material. I could not control myself, and burst out laughing, and asked him how marriage came into it. We are so at ease with each other, that we were able to have this conversation in the heat of the moment, and it did not affect anything. I told him about sigheh which he found fascinating. The marriage issue, is another ritual that we go through, and cracks me up each time.

Monty felt that I had improved (his words) since he first met me. He thought I had lost a lot of weight ( I have not, but am probably more toned, thank god the gym is having an effect) .

One of the things that I love about my regular clients, is that they notice things about me that are different, and I find it sweet, and flattering. The improvement issue I accept, as Monty sees a variety of escorts across the UK, and is a prolific reviewer. I am the only black escort he has ever seen though.

We share similar interests, and Monty used to work in my organisation, before I came on board, years ago. I updated him on what things are like now, which he is aware of, as he still keeps in touch with a number of people. We had a heated discussion about how bad things are now, and how lots of people are losing their jobs.

Whenever I hear from Monty, it usually is last minute, as he has to work out an escape plan if he is not alone. I would never contact a client either by text or email without their consent, and Monty knows that. However, this week, Monty asked me to text him, if I lost my job. There is a lot of restructuring going on at work, and people are being laid off all the time. I was touched when he said this.

Monty kept on saying that he felt that I was a friend, and that he was not joking, and emphasised that he would never blur the boundaries.

I had fun, and always have fun with him, and walked away from his flat with a big smile on my face.

Have a good weekend.

Labels: Black escort, clients, London

I am meeting a higher number of Firstimers now than before. I cannot figure out why that is. The majority of my clients see escorts regularly, and fortunately are not the cynical, hardened,demanding, misogynist types that I hear some escorts encounter.

I met another firstimer this week, and he expected me to interrogate him, on why he had made the booking. It reminded me of Kevin someone who I saw earlier in the month, who while we were in missionary position, asked whether I enjoyed my job.

I answered both questions in a sensitive way. I think in both cases, guilt may have been behind the questions.I do not feel it is my place to ever ask my clients why they visit escorts. Who am I to judge?
I am bewildered when I read about escorts who openly tell their clients that they hate what they are doing. I know if I hated what I was doing, I could not do it.

Labels: Black escort, clients, Firstimers, London

I saw Roger again, a few days ago. He missed his flight. I did my best to remind him of the time, but he had miscalculated how long it would take him ,to get to the airport.

His colleagues, who he was supposed to travel with, had guessed he was up to some tricks, and unfortunately, he got teased and badgered on arrival.

He claims that I have done something to pragmatist Roger, as he had no intention of coming back to the UK sooner, but that has changed.

He made it clear that he did not want the the full goth look (the multiple face-pierced and spikey hard hair gothic girls with white makeup, black nails, lip paint, nose, eyebrow and tongue studs).More the goth/bdsm look.

There was more of the click factor, when we met again. We were grinning at each other like a couple of cheesy cheshire cats. Lots of mind and body stuff.

The endorphins were on the rise for both of us. This caused the time to fly, and warm feelings to rise, like tree sap after a long cold winter.

He sent an email, and mentioned that the old fellow had been like a flagpost every morning!

I feel guilty that he missed his flight, but what is a girl to do?

Have a good weekend!

Labels: Black escort, clients, London

I am having a problem with my email at the moment. Some of my mail is disappearing into cyberspace.I am not sure how Yahoo is selecting, which messages are sent and received. It is weird. For those of you who have sent me mail, if I have not responded, could you please resend it.I have resent everything I sent out yesterday. Thank you, to those of you who brought this to my attention.

I met Roger last week, for a four hour booking . He wanted me to wear something Gothic, with killer heels.

I do not have full on gothic clothing, but have lots of black dresses,skirts, and silver jewellery. He was not particular about what I wore on the outside, but my lingerie was important. Fortunately, I have lots of corsets, that fit the bill.

I have more lingerie now, than I had before I started escorting. I think it is important to have a variety of lingerie, as it is not unusual to have specific requests.

The amount of money I spend on lingerie, is unbelievable, but I guess it pays in the end, right?

Roger had come off a long haul flight, when we met. I expected him to be knackered. I need a minimum of twenty four hours to recover when I have done long haul. I am no good to anybody. I need to have a shower as soon as I get to my destination, and then crash.

I am so amazed when I meet people who have loads of energy, after an eighteen hour flight. Roger fits into this category.

He is a neurosurgeon, over 50 and hip.I got to his hotel room, and conversation was so easy. We talked and laughed, and talked. I was aware that time was flying by, but realised he wanted the conversation, too.I never know whether I am going to get on with a client, when I meet them, and it is something I worry about. Fortunately, there are a few people who I have met, that I will not see again. Within a few minutes, I knew Roger and I had a lot in common.

We decided to order something from room service.

It is unusual for me to meet a client, who is not a regular, who knows what buttons to press. Roger, did all the right things. He wanted to please me.I do not expect my clients to please me,as I realise they are paying for my time. I believe most men use escorts, so they can have some allocated time, for their needs to be met.They want to be pampered.I am aware for some men, part of it, is for me to enjoy myself. If I get something from the encounter, I see it as a bonus.

Roger started by giving me one of the best deep tissue massages, I have had in ages. I really did not want to get up after that. I returned the favour, and then the action began.

It was slow, and hard, in all the right places. Just what I needed. I had to keep my killer heels on at all times, a turn on for Roger. I tend not to wear heels in bed, and was worried about jabbing his balls. Luckily, I did not.

Time just flew by while I was with him. I was struck by his energy, and warmth.

At the end of the booking, Roger insisted on walking me to my cab . I did not expect him to, or any client to do this for that matter. Most of my clients on Outcall, have nodded off when it is time for me to leave, and I let myself out quietly.

The food was left untouched, as we were too busy enjoying our time together.

Roger has been in touch since, and wants to meet next week. So I need to head to Camden market, for the Goth look.

Labels: Black escort, clients, London

I can recall a new client grilling me over the phone about my education. It was amusing as he was booking me for an hour, and wanted to know what I had studied.

Would we discuss my educational achievements for the hour?

We met for an hourly booking, and then I saw him again for a dinner date a few weeks later.

I guess the shorter booking was to gauge whether I would be appropriate for a longer date. It turns out that we had similar interests in books,films, and had worked in the same industry!

I think that some clients expect escorts to be mind readers. They have expectations that they do not make clear.

I had a conversation at the end of a booking with another client, about some personal issues. He was aware of my background,outside of escorting,and wanted some advice. so I told him what I thought.

The booking was extended. What he said was most important for him, was the conversation that we had that day. He felt that he was able to offload,and find some solutions.

I had no idea that this is what he needed, when he booked me. He did not spell it out, and would not, given his circumstances.

Everything came pouring out at the end, and I was able to offer him a space to offload.

Some men, go to escorts for this sort of experience. What they do not understand, is that we all have our strengths.

You can pick up some information via email, phone conversations, or reviews,about an escort. The rest you have to leave to chance.

If you want an escort to be a bimbo make it clear at the start. In that way you will not be disappointed if she does not fit the bill.

The problem is, when things are unsatisfying, some clients tend to believe that it is all the escort's fault. Chevalier has an excellent point here

So . . . if/when one's encounters in the hobby are unsatisfying . . . look within, not without. Something for everyone to remember -- and I'm certainly included; don't always do as well at this as I could/should.


What it takes by Chevalier.

I have had a record number of visits to my blog, from visitors in search of Faria Alam. I hope my new readers take a look at all the bloggers on my sidebar, who have some interesting tales to tell.

Have a good weekend.

Labels: Black escort, Chevalier, clients, Expectations, London

Occasionally a client will ask me when I started working.

I know this is important for some people.

Does the length of service affect the type of experience you think you will receive?

What are you looking for when you ask this question?

Young and fresh, or old, cynical and burned out.

Is it clear cut?

I wonder whether some men target newbies, as they feel they are amateur, and can take advantage of them.

Can we draw any links?

The few escorts that I have met and know ,that are successful, have been around for a number of years. However, I have read about some newbies, who are successful,too.

Does length of service influence the decision making process for you?

Similar to clients making decisions based on; how many clients escorts claim, they see a week. My view is that in most cases, you will be told what you want to hear.

Is it all about perception?

Is this one of the reasons why some escorts reinvent themselves, with multiple websites?

Labels: Black escort, clients, London, Perception, Thoughts

I have had a high number of calls from clients in the past few weeks, who want to see me now.

I state clearly on my site, that I need notice most of the time. Occasionally, I can accomodate clients who call me on the off chance. What I picked up from these clients was, how irritated they were that they could not see me right away.

I wonder whether these men assume :

1. That I work from home(I do not), and am sitting there painting my nails waiting for the phone to ring.

2.That my whole day is free, and there is noone else booked, so I can always fit them in.

3. I do not have a life with other commitments.

I understand that when some men have the urge they want it now, however to assume they can be accomodated all the time, is not realistic. I think escort agencies tend to have escorts available at all times.

Maybe it is like calling the doctor, when you are ill. The receptionist tells you, that if you want an appointment you need to call two weeks in advance. I do not know that I am going to be ill in advance.

Some of my clients make advance bookings. Most of them do not live in London, and want to make sure they will see me, when they are here. My London clients who make advance bookings, have to find free time in the day that will not arouse suspicion, and so have to plan things carefully.

Chevalier has a post on his timing for appointments.

He has another post on Last Minute appointments.

Is arousal any different if you plan ahead or want it now?

Labels: Black escort, Chevalier, clients, Policies and Procedures, Thoughts

I met a new client who freaked me out. It was not anything that he did. It was the way he looked. As I opened the door, he fit my image of what a proper thug would look like. I panicked and thought he would be aggressive.

I do not care what people look like, but in this instance, I have to say I was worried.

He turned out to be a rough diamond, who had a basket of tricks up his sleeve. It just goes to show you cannot judge some people by how they look.

What would you do?

Labels: Black escort, Boundaries, clients, London

I had a conversation with a client last week, about this.It is not unusual for women within the industry to have problems with drugs and alcohol. Some of them, have addictions before they start escorting, some of them become addicted while they are working. Some have no addictions whatsoever.

He had discovered that an escort that he used to see regularly, was using drugs. He heard via the grapevine that she used drugs before each appointment to get through the booking.

I think this can be difficult to detect, depending on what drugs an escort takes. If an escort is taking ecstasy, she clearly will be chirpy all the time, which most clients want.

It is difficult. I find that when I go on outcalls, the majority of my clients drink alcohol, and a minority take cocaine. Most of my clients want me to drink and take drugs with them,like Jacques.

I do not drink or do drugs, and sometimes this does not go down well. It is easy to develop a habit, if it is being offered to you all the time.

I know some escorts use alcohol and drugs to get through bookings that they find difficult. I know some escorts who find that it gives them confidence. It can also enable an escort to block out what she encounters in a booking.

It must be hard for clients to discover that an escort who they like, is using drugs to get through an appointment with them. I doubt any escort in their right mind would admit to this,as I believe it would be a case of professional suicide.

I think about my escort friends who use alcohol and drugs when they work. I do not think that in all cases they do not like their jobs. I think another way of looking at it is, that they recognise that it can be demanding and stressful. The alcohol and drugs enable them to be happy,friendly and appear to be up for most things, throughout the booking.

Some love to drink and do drugs, and it has nothing to do with escorting.It helps them chill out.

What do you think?

Well, in Australia they do things in a creative way. They pay their detectives to see prostitutes, to gather evidence against illegal brothels. I doubt these guys need drugs or alcohol.

Labels: alcohol, Black escort, clients, Daily Telegraph Australia, drugs, Escorts, News

I did my weekly catch up on a messageboard at the weekend.

I came across a post where someone mentioned that a famous escort who he saw, told him that a client turned up at her day job, and made it obvious that he knew that she was an escort. She thought he was a shit for doing so.

The thought of this happening to me is unsettling.

I am aware that some of my clients have just as much to lose as I do. They are married, high powered professionals, who could not deal with the embarassment. If their wives found out, they would be taken to the cleaners. However, there is a group of men, who do not give a damn.

Reading that post on the messageboard, was a reminder as to why I do not give personal information to most of my clients. I have done, with some of my regulars, but they are in the minority. I know some escorts who tell all their clients their real names, and where they work, as they find it easier to deal with. Good luck to them.

Last year I had a booking with someone who works in the same field that I do, outside of this industry. If I had this information, before I saw him, I would not have taken the booking. I recognise that it is unlikely that a client would disclose his occupation to you, unless you have had lots of email contact,are on a dinner/lunch date or he feels he wants you to know.

The chances of me bumping into this man professionally are very high, and god knows what I will do, when that happens. I do not like to mix this life, with my other life, but it feels that the two may merge now. Something that I thought was impossible.

I have to confess, that I made some assumptions. I did not think that there was any possibility that men who worked in my profession could ever be clients. A classic case of having a false sense of security. Total wake up call!

*gets flame retardent coat, and runs for cover*

Have any of you been in a similar situation?

If so, when you bumped into the individual, did they breach your confidentiality?

How did you handle it?

He has no idea what I do outside of this industry, so will be shocked if and when we do meet.

Two more additions to my sidebar.

Chevalier, who is based in Texas, who writes about his encounters with escorts and the scene.


Not just another John is forty something, divorced, has seen escorts. He is in a relationship with an escort, and bares his soul in his blog.

Pay them both a visit.

Have a good week.

Labels: Black escort, Boundaries, Chevalier, clients, London, Not just another John, security

Regular clients tend to know more about me than non regulars. One of my regulars is aware of what I do outside escorting, and asked me to be a part of his business team. I was flattered, and shocked. He clearly thought that what I am doing at the moment, would work well, with the business he has set up.

I declined the request, but was tempted. The issues for me were again around boundaries. It is not something that I would feel comfortable with at all.If I applied to work for an organisation, and realised that a client was a member of the staff team, I would leave.

You come across so many different types of professionals as an escort. I have to admit that at times, I wish I could use the services of some of my clients, but I do not feel it is appropriate.

I have heard of an accountant who does the books of all the escorts he sees. I have seen an optician who offered to check my eyes, but again I refused.

I know that some escorts sometimes put messages on boards offering their time in exchange for certain services, ie plumber, interior design,gardening.

Have any of you been in a similar situation?

Labels: Black escort, clients, London, Regulars

I saw Jacques a few days ago.

I have decided not to see him again. He has a way of making me feel flustered before I get there, the constant phone calls asking where I am.I know it is the coke, but it is still annoying.

I got there, and he extended our time, which is the norm. I think he gets paranoid, if he is left alone when he is on drugs.

He had paid me upfront, but then wanted to call his dealer, and realised that he did not have enough cash on him. He asked me for some money back, and would get some more later.

You know where this is going. This guy is not short of cash. I know where he works, and he is a major player in his field.When I read about him in the papers, and how well he is doing in his field, I smile. However, he has issues. He begged and begged,in his usual style and said he would get some more cash, so I gave him back some of the money.

I know, I know, why would I take that risk when he was so high?

I have been seeing him for over a year, several times a month, and this has never happpened.

When my time was up, he gave me his ATM card, with his pin number and told me to go and withdraw the money, and come back and give him the card.

I was not comfortable doing this, and told him to get the money, which he would not do.

If I had taken his card and withdrawn the money,how was I to know that he would have any recollection of the events, when he woke up the next day?

So, I left, and have decided I will not see him again. He is not worth the hassle.

Labels: Black escort, Boundaries, clients, London

Last year I went on an Outcall, and the client's children and nanny were asleep in the house. I was not aware of this, until I got there. At various points the cat came into the bedroom.

Why would anyone want to take this risk?

If the kids woke up what would my client have said to them?

It is one thing to go to a client's house, and the wife and kids are out of town. This is usually the case when I go on Outcalls to client's homes; but to have the kids at home is very risky. Some clients take discretion seriously, but clearly others do not give a damn.

An escort friend had an early outcall on a Sunday morning. The wife and kids were at church. Surprise, surprise, wifey came home early. Fortunately for my friend, the client had huge grounds, a back entrance, and cottages for the staff. She ran out the back, in her bra and thongs to the waiting cab.

Another escort friend, went on an outcall, the client's wife was out for the evening. He told my friend that his wife was having an affair, and he knew about it. He was unhappy about the situation, and was booking my friend for revenge. He had children asleep, upstairs too. My friend saw no harm in this. She feels he was lonely and unhappy, and she filled a small gap in his void.

I read Mercurial girl's post a few days ago, and she got caught in the act. My heart goes out to Kim.Thank god it did not get ugly. The story is different, but the issues are similar.

Most men want to keep their relationships intact, but taking risks like this is bound to rock the boat?

What do you think?

Labels: Black escort, clients, Escorts, Mercurial girl, Risks