Monday, May 19, 2008

Music and associations with clients

Beau sent me this lovely pic, which is so appropriate for this blog. Thanks Beau.

I was sitting in a cafe today, and a track came on by Santana. Whenever I hear that track, I can't stop thinking about Jacques. The track was something we always danced to ,whenever I saw him. I binned him, a while ago, but wonder how he is whenever I hear the track.

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Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Some requests from clients

A year ago a client called me up, and asked whether he could film me during the booking. I told him that was not possible. The same man calls me every two weeks since he made the request, leaving various messages.

The pest thinks I will see him, dream on.

Today I get an email from someone asking me whether he can take photos of me during the booking.


I don't show my face on my site, so he thinks he can come and see me and I will say feel free to take all the pics you want.

Sarah Summers has a great post on how escorts are not social workers are we, I agree with her when she says some men think we are stupid. I have also had emails where clients who have not met me, say they just want to come see me, talk, nothing else, for no charge.

Things will start to get complicated if I have to check potential clients for cameras before a booking.

Check that they have not stolen my knickers.

Clients who arrive and say they have to go to the cashpoint after the booking as they had no time to get the money. I send them back anyway as my rule is payment upfront. Anyone who does not respect my T&C's is shown the door. This is rare, and has happened twice in three years. The majority of my clients know the rules, and respect them.

Check that they have not taken Viagra and recreational drugs together.

When things get complicated for me it isn't fun.

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Mad boss strikes again

I picked up a nasty voicemail from mad boss this afternoon. She was questioning a number of decisions I had made. I have some responsibilities, and she made it clear that I didn't need her consent, to make those decisions when I joined the organisation. She claimed that I had not filled in several monthly reports with specific information. This is rubbish, and before I responded to her, I checked my copies on my computer, and realised that I had sent them to her. I found that I had manual copies too, and dates when I had sent them in.

Remember what goes around comes around. I left her a voicemail stating that I didn't know what she was talking about, as I had sent her the reports with the information that she needed months ago. I also sent her an email, saying that I would speak to her tomorrow.

I work off site, and fortunately only have to see her once a quarter for a three hour meeting. I then decided to call her at home, to discuss this with her. I told her that she had the information in the office, and knew I sent it to her, and was willing to send the documents via email.

Do you think the cow had the decency to apologise?

I asked her whether she wanted me to check out issues with her before I made decisions, and she claimed that was not necessary, but she had concerns about some staff. I asked her what the rules were , and she claimed that she didn't want to make any hard and fast rules. She would leave it to me.

Do you get the picture?

On this occasion, I didn't lose my cool with her, as the sun was shining today, and the weather was great, and I am feeling pretty mellow.

I console myself with the knowledge that all of my colleagues think she is unprofessional, and bonkers.

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Friday, May 02, 2008

Deborah Palfrey hangs herself

Deborah Palfrey the DC madam, was found dead yesterday in a storage shed next to her mother's home. I think this is sad, she took her life as she didn't want to go to jail. She clearly was under a lot of stress, and some people in DC must have slept well last night, knowing that they will not be named and shamed


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Have a good weekend.

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