Nia Dark and Lovely, a Black Escort in London

this guy was Mr Huge in the size department. He was Black.

Now I hope you are not being stereotypical here Nia! LOL

You are just giving us white guys an inferiority complex again - and mine's big enough already (the inferiority complex that is! - * sigh *).


He said he wanted me to meet his wife, on the next visit! He wanted me to teach her a few things. I was shocked,

Well I'm shocked that you are shocked Nia. Shouldn't a courtesan be prepared to help in this way - or is it giving away professional secrets? Maybe you are like the Magic Circle and are not allowed to reveal any tricks of the trade!

But more importantly - was his wife shocked!!!!!

There are a number of escorts who state on their sites, that they do not see Black men. They have their reasons.

I have seen this on websites. They have their reasons - and I have my own for choosing not to visit such escorts.

Interestingly though I think that I have noticed more often that some escorts do not want to see Asian men. I don't think it is colour. I think it is to do with class and culture. They would be happy to see a rich, Asian businessman who might book overnight or even take them on an all expenses paid visit abroad. What they don't want is again having to quibble over "the fair" with an Asian cab driver. It might be just that the equivalent white guy might have more nouse (Yorkshire word) than to quibble over "the fair" with a woman who he wanted to provide him with some very intimate services.

There have been lots of discussions on message boards about racism and "punting". Sadly they rarely achieve any great insights but do expose a lot of underlying predudices.

So I guess I may be revealing my own prejudices here as well!

B xx
 

PS - Regarding big dicks and escorts.

Another London Escort - Kama - has a page on her website about "big dicks", though she more tastefully refers to "well endowed men".

I recollect she used to say she would accept such men as long as she was given advanced warning to prepare. (I would be interested to know what such preparation entailed!) Now though she says she prefers not to receive "horse type men".

The relevant page from her website is here.

To be fair she is very petite and I shouldn't have any problems in that regard!!!! I don't recollect seeing anything similar on any other escort's website. I wonder how often an escort has to turn a client away because he is too big? I can recollect Pru writing about this on her blog some time ago but can't find the post now.

B xx
 

Beau,

I am sorry if I came across as stereotyping, lol. I write what I experience, and witness.

I did not mean to give you an inferiority complex.

*recognises that I am bound to upset someone at some point, damn!*

You are right, I should not be shocked, but you know what I am like.

I have not met his wife yet,lol.

I am not sure how you can prepare for well endowed men, either.

No amount of lube, could have worked with Mr Huge.
 

PPS
I wonder how big his wife was ... ?

;)

B xx
 

I just remembered the scene in "Full Metal Jacket" where the Vietnamese prostitute refused to see the back man because she thought he'd be too big:

"No boom-boom with the soul bruther. Too buku!"

Thankfully, I'm not in that ballpark despite all of my boyhood longings to be such. Never did I imagine that a man could be too big.
 

GGL,

I have too confessed, I never imagined a man could be so big either :)