Sunday, November 19, 2006
How many clients and escorts tell others about this aspect of our lives
I find that the majority of the escorts and clients that I know, do not tell friends, partners or employers about this aspect of their lives.
We all have different reasons. Some clients will never admit to another soul that they have paid for it.
I would not tell my mother, coming from good Catholic stock, being honest would cause emotional pain, and would kill her.
Can we be accused of lying when we have never been asked the questions?
I read Compartments post yesterday. She feels that it is the social stigma that makes it so much bigger for all of us.
I agree with her, and also think that escorts are a safety valve. A client sent me an email, last week, and said keep up the good work. I asked him what he was talking about, and he said, that if he did not come to see me, he would be after his colleagues, or relatives. So, I prevented him from straying into areas that could be dangerous for him. I need to hold onto what he said, at all times.
Have a good week.
We all have different reasons. Some clients will never admit to another soul that they have paid for it.
I would not tell my mother, coming from good Catholic stock, being honest would cause emotional pain, and would kill her.
Can we be accused of lying when we have never been asked the questions?
I read Compartments post yesterday. She feels that it is the social stigma that makes it so much bigger for all of us.
I agree with her, and also think that escorts are a safety valve. A client sent me an email, last week, and said keep up the good work. I asked him what he was talking about, and he said, that if he did not come to see me, he would be after his colleagues, or relatives. So, I prevented him from straying into areas that could be dangerous for him. I need to hold onto what he said, at all times.
Have a good week.
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Overlain,
I am happy for your friend. I have not come across any escorts in the entire time that I have been escorting, who have told their families.
I know they exist, and I think it is great.
It is not an option for me at all. In an ideal world, it would be.
Would you tell your family that you see escorts?
I am happy for your friend. I have not come across any escorts in the entire time that I have been escorting, who have told their families.
I know they exist, and I think it is great.
It is not an option for me at all. In an ideal world, it would be.
Would you tell your family that you see escorts?
I have never told anyone in my life. And I certainly can not do so.
However, I'm realistic enough to know that there have been people close to me that absolutely must have known. Back in college, I was sloppy and kept a stash of the escort ad papers in my bedroom in my dresser. All a snooping roomate would have to have done was find that stash and they'd know I was very much into seeing hookers. I circled my top picks.
Also, my very first "regular" escort friend (who was supposedly the opitome of discretion) once called the apartment when I was not home and asked for me. Of course, she used her erotic-sounding "hooker" name with my roomate, and for all sakes and purposes, he knew damn well I'd been paying for it. he knew me well enough to know that I would have told him if I'd been getting laid on my own. He knew all of my personal business. It was unspoken, but he knew.
However, I'm realistic enough to know that there have been people close to me that absolutely must have known. Back in college, I was sloppy and kept a stash of the escort ad papers in my bedroom in my dresser. All a snooping roomate would have to have done was find that stash and they'd know I was very much into seeing hookers. I circled my top picks.
Also, my very first "regular" escort friend (who was supposedly the opitome of discretion) once called the apartment when I was not home and asked for me. Of course, she used her erotic-sounding "hooker" name with my roomate, and for all sakes and purposes, he knew damn well I'd been paying for it. he knew me well enough to know that I would have told him if I'd been getting laid on my own. He knew all of my personal business. It was unspoken, but he knew.
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Mon Nov 20, 06:25:00 pm
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Mon Nov 20, 06:25:00 pm
I often read about johns who were given a certain girl's number by a friend. Wow, you have got some friend! In my experience, men, in general, lack humility with one another. They do not like to appear to be "weak" in front of other men. Admitting that you see escorts is admitting that you are weak in the ladies department. That you need to pay for it. So very few men would ever admit this to another man (except through internet anonymity).
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Mon Nov 20, 06:28:00 pm
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Mon Nov 20, 06:28:00 pm
Overlain,
I can see how for some EE's how paying for your education in this way may be acceptable.
GGL,
I cannot get over your first regular escort. She called you without your permission!
Yes, some clients have said that they realised that colleagues were attending functions with escorts, and managed to get information from them.
What puzzles me is how you drop it into the conversation?
I can see how for some EE's how paying for your education in this way may be acceptable.
GGL,
I cannot get over your first regular escort. She called you without your permission!
Yes, some clients have said that they realised that colleagues were attending functions with escorts, and managed to get information from them.
What puzzles me is how you drop it into the conversation?
Yes, I begand to supect that Ieesha might have had some kind of drug problem, or perhaps was just perpetually broke. She was supposedly discreet (even declared it in her advertisement). And then she amazed me by virtually begging me to come for an appointment after I'd not seen her for a while. That was the last I saw of her. I told her she'd really screwed up by calling my home.
This has happened to me on more than one occaision though.
This has happened to me on more than one occaision though.
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Mon Nov 20, 07:34:00 pm
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Mon Nov 20, 07:34:00 pm
GGL,
That just ain't right. That one phone call could have been the beginning of the end. Not good at all.
That just ain't right. That one phone call could have been the beginning of the end. Not good at all.
Back in those times (and not really so long ago) the internet was not available as a reference. There was no FAQ to guide a punter. Since I did not share my punting details with friends, I had no one to ask for advice either. I literally learned on the streets. A man had to stumble through an ocean of bad experiences and close calls. And I did. I've seen most of it ;-)
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