Nia Dark and Lovely, a Black Escort in London

I am glad to see this year out.

Wishing all my readers a Happy New Year, and I hope that you all get what you wish for, in 2008.

Thank you all for reading.

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These past two weeks have been hectic. I have been to one Christmas do after another. I tend to say no at this time of year, to most invitations, as I do not like the pressure, but this year has been different.

It has been great meeting up with friends I have not seen all year, and yet we live in London, but only get together at Christmas. I must do something about that next year. I have eaten so much, and enjoyed it, and I am not putting on weight. It is fantastic.

I got woken up this morning at the crack of dawn, by Roger.

Bless him, he forgot about the time difference, and was calling to wish me a Happy Holiday. He had just got off a long haul flight, was doing his Christmas shopping(so laid back) and decided to call me. We spent two hours on the phone catching up, and deciding when and where we will meet in 2008. He was apologetic about not having seen me as much as he would have liked to in 2007. I find that sweet, but he does not need to apologise. I think that is what you need to do with girlfriend's, so I guess I must have got the girlfriend experience right.

I am looking forward to putting my feet up for the next few days, and catching up on some reading and watching Dvds. Two more parties to go before the New Year.

Happy Holidays to all my readers and I hope that you will be able to spend this time, in the way you would want, noisy or peaceful, but not overworked.

Labels: Black escort, London, Thoughts

I have my view on naming and shaming which I have talked about here.

The confidentiality issue is tricky which is demonstrated here.

Some clients in Canada are challenging a website that has their details on it, as bad clients.

They claim the information on the site is false.

Can anyone tell me which client in their right mind, will admit to bad behaviour ie stealing from an escort, raping an escort, or physically assaulting an escort?

There is a possibility that an escort could lie about this, but I have not come across any, in the entire time that I have been escorting.

What do you think?

Labels: Escorts, globeandmail.com, Naming and shaming, News, security

Today I learned what a career divorcee is.

It seems to me that no amount of money is enough for this ex-model. I think she needs to start classes, on how to marry a millionaire, and walk away with a huge settlement.

Three times lucky with millionaires, I wonder what happens to her this time.

Labels: Black escort, guardian, London, Thoughts

One of the women that I manage called in sick, yesterday. She has a customer facing role, and has a bad dose of the flu. We were due to have a meeting this week, which she said she would attend. I told her not to come to the meeting, as I did not want the flu. She was offended. I question why she wants to come and meet with me, and yet she is in no position to see her customers. I am pretty laid back, and understand that when you are ill, you are ill. I have a major issue with people who come to work when they are ill, and spread their germs to the rest of us.

I went on an outcall last year, and when I spoke to my client he sounded okay. I realised when I got to his flat, that he was coughing and spluttering, and told him that I would return when he was better. He begged me to stay, and I did ( I know, I am a fool) but on condition that there would be no kissing, and he could not touch me. Within forty eight hours, I had this nasty cough and cold. My fault, I should have walked out.

I find it amazing when I am ill, and I tell my clients that I am not working, and they ask me to see them regardless.

What use am I when I am coughing, spluttering and have a runny nose?

Labels: Black escort, London, Thoughts

I am proud to say, that I sent all my Christmas gifts to family and friends who live abroad, last week.

I went Christmas shopping with two escort friends in Bluewater, this week.

We walked, and walked, and walked, and did not buy much.We spent more time having lunch.

I have just done a batch of cards to send to the USA, and Australia, as the posting deadlines were yesterday. I feel I am going to take it easier this year. I do not want to work myself into a frenzy.

Update

The Reluctant Punter has been added to my sidebar. Please pay him a visit.

Have a good weekend. I am off to face the crowds again.

Labels: Black escort, London, The reluctant punter

There are some TV stars in the US who are moonlighting as escorts. This is not unusual, and goes on, but is kept hush, hush.

These are women who are otherwise unattainable by regular Joe's.

It is all about the money, at the end of the day.

Thank you to the reader who sent in this tip.

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I had a conversation with a friend of mine who uses Viagra over the weekend. He has given me permission to share his views here.

Regarding Viagra. You must not mix it with nitrites
like nitroglycerin which people take for angina. But
if a man has angina he had better stick to blow
jobs so as not to increase the heart rate with large
muscle activity.

Side effects may include hard penis, headaches, blue
tinged vision, facial flushing, backache, drop in
blood pressure (i.e dizziness).

THE MOST IMPORTANT thing, is to take the
right dose . If you have 100 mg tablets bite
off a small bit like 20 mgs and take it ON AN EMPTY
STOMACH. If you have fatty foods in your stomach
absorption is delayed.

If the effect is good stick with that dose, but if it
does nothing try a bit more next time. If the effect
is too much, then reduce the dose further.

This is really, really important. The standard pill
sizes may give too big a dose, especially if the
person is small.

Nearly all side effects are the result of taking a
dose that is too much. If you take it on full stomach
and then have no effect, so you take some more that is
very bad. Don't do it.


If you get into a pattern in a
relationship where you are hen-pecked and just
dreading the next demand that will be made on you,
then it affects you psychologically and your
testosterone level falls and you are less horny.

But if you take control and insist on the other person
doing what you want to do, your testosterone level
rises, your mood is elevated, and you feel as horny as
hell.

What happens to a lot of middle class married men is
that they get into this kind of beaten down status and
then they don't want sex with their wives. So they go
looking for escorts for validation that they can still
do it with a woman. It boosts their testosterone level
and they feel happier. Then they get on line and boast
about their "conquests" like victorious roosters
crowing.

Have a good week.

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