Nia Dark and Lovely, a Black Escort in London

No I've never double booked an escort under those circumstances but I have found myself trying to make a short notice appointment after having been let down.

Once - many years ago - I saw an escort who had badly let me down a week or so earlier. I think she had some serious problems with the job. She told me when I finally met her that there had been another client waiting for her in the same car park at the same time as me the previous week. Whether he got to see her or not I don't know!

B xx
 

When I started the game in Los Angeles, as a client, I found it very difficult to make actual physical connections with those I called.

I would make an appointment, and was then told to drive to the neighborhood and then call again from a public payphone (usually at a specific street corner). That shows the escort that you are actually serious and are in the neighborhood.

Well, I'd often arrive at the payphone only to find the escort's voicemail turned on, or simply no answer. I'd call 5,6 times over the course of 15-20 minutes and still no answer.

I came to learn that it is a two-way street. Since guys often did not show up, the girl would accept the first gent that actually DID arrive at her doorstep. Anyone else that came afterward would either have to wait (and call back later) or move on.

Now, it really sucks to be standing at a payphone with an erection in your pants and no companionship option. So I reacted by choosing 1-2 "backups" to my primary choice. If the same (above) situation happened with my first choice, I'd simply move on to the second choice. But in order to even have these choices, I'd have to make that "first phone call" to each lady and have her expect me to call back again within a certain time frame. Needless to say, 2 of the ladies would probably be out of luck.

I absolutely HATED to do this, but honestly, I found the escorts to be SO unrelibale in this manner, it became almost standard practice for me.

Take note that this was before the internet became a tool in making contacts and booking appointments. I was usually calling girls out of a newspaper advertsing section, and from a payphone at that. There was no "booking an appointment for next week". Girls were in business only when they were answering the phone. Sometimes the window of opportunity was a small one.

These days, if I made an appointment with a girl via email, for 2 days from now, I'd be more inclined to believe that my time was actually reserved. And I think a lot of the guys who do not show (nowadays) are the ones who either have a bad feeling about the situation, or simply checken out. It takes a lot to go through with it if you have never "punted" before.

I tell girls (and guys) just to accept the difficulty of getting together as a part of the business. It is tough on both sides. Probably why the activity is so expensive!