Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Messageboards,punters,escorts and pot shots
I went away for a few days, as you know. I got a call from a friend this afternoon alerting me to a nasty post on Punternet about me.
Some individual who calls him or herself Rockenroll, and claims to have seen me in 2005, had this to say
The pictures are fake (and not even of the same person). She is a nice person and gives a good service, but is a long way from the pictures.
I don't know who this individual is. I have worked as an escort since 2005, and have an internet presence. I am aware that anyone who has a presence on the internet, can expect someone to say something about them, at some point.
This person needs to get his or her facts straight. I have several reviews on Punternet by multiple reviewers, who are respected.
Surely if I was using fake pictures, they would have pointed this out, right?
It would be really useful for me to know whose photos RockenRoll believes I am using. I posess the CDs and prints for all my photoshoots, and do not have a twin.
I have shared my views on messageboard dynamics, and the things that some individuals will do. As I said before, some of these people have deep rooted issues, and by attacking others, they get some sense of gratification and recognition.My view is that some members of these boards have a strong need to control and dominate, and bring their unresolved issues of omnipotence, onto messageboards, and start acting out.
I no longer read messageboards regularly ,as I am bored with the content. I do not have the time or energy to engage with individuals who suffer from delusions of grandeur.
As Peridot Ash points out, there will always be people on messageboards who will flame escorts.
Escorts have to be careful what they say, or they attract the wrong types. It only takes one totally insecure, fucked-up prick out there, name and location unknown to the “community,” who would love to teach an uppity bitch whore who says something he doesn’t agree with on a message board a nice little lesson in person. And she’d never know if it was jerkoff69 or Schlongbooger or DaddyButtFuck or whoever from the message board.
An escort friend who had a high profile, and has retired this year, had a false review written about her. She could not figure out who had written the review, and years after the review was posted, it became clear that the reviewer was another escort. Yes, another escort, who was a close friend of hers. The site owner removed the review.This is a cut throat business.
Rockenroll could be another escort, for all I know.
As Jenny de Milo points out Selling your sisters out = bad. Times are tough for some escorts out there, the credit crunch has hit them hard, and some escorts feel that there is not enough room for everyone to eat. This is the nature of the industry, and some escorts will hit out at others, who they believe are threatening their business. Or they get their pimps to do it for them.
This can be a very dangerous business and there are very angry men who have very serious issues with women who gravitate towards it.
Okay, so this guy or girl says that I have fake photos.
How have I survived in this business with fake photos for four years?
I have some clients and regulars who have found me via Punternet, but that is not where I get the bulk of my work from.
Some individual who calls him or herself Rockenroll, and claims to have seen me in 2005, had this to say
The pictures are fake (and not even of the same person). She is a nice person and gives a good service, but is a long way from the pictures.
I don't know who this individual is. I have worked as an escort since 2005, and have an internet presence. I am aware that anyone who has a presence on the internet, can expect someone to say something about them, at some point.
This person needs to get his or her facts straight. I have several reviews on Punternet by multiple reviewers, who are respected.
Surely if I was using fake pictures, they would have pointed this out, right?
It would be really useful for me to know whose photos RockenRoll believes I am using. I posess the CDs and prints for all my photoshoots, and do not have a twin.
I have shared my views on messageboard dynamics, and the things that some individuals will do. As I said before, some of these people have deep rooted issues, and by attacking others, they get some sense of gratification and recognition.My view is that some members of these boards have a strong need to control and dominate, and bring their unresolved issues of omnipotence, onto messageboards, and start acting out.
I no longer read messageboards regularly ,as I am bored with the content. I do not have the time or energy to engage with individuals who suffer from delusions of grandeur.
As Peridot Ash points out, there will always be people on messageboards who will flame escorts.
Escorts have to be careful what they say, or they attract the wrong types. It only takes one totally insecure, fucked-up prick out there, name and location unknown to the “community,” who would love to teach an uppity bitch whore who says something he doesn’t agree with on a message board a nice little lesson in person. And she’d never know if it was jerkoff69 or Schlongbooger or DaddyButtFuck or whoever from the message board.
An escort friend who had a high profile, and has retired this year, had a false review written about her. She could not figure out who had written the review, and years after the review was posted, it became clear that the reviewer was another escort. Yes, another escort, who was a close friend of hers. The site owner removed the review.This is a cut throat business.
Rockenroll could be another escort, for all I know.
As Jenny de Milo points out Selling your sisters out = bad. Times are tough for some escorts out there, the credit crunch has hit them hard, and some escorts feel that there is not enough room for everyone to eat. This is the nature of the industry, and some escorts will hit out at others, who they believe are threatening their business. Or they get their pimps to do it for them.
This can be a very dangerous business and there are very angry men who have very serious issues with women who gravitate towards it.
Okay, so this guy or girl says that I have fake photos.
How have I survived in this business with fake photos for four years?
I have some clients and regulars who have found me via Punternet, but that is not where I get the bulk of my work from.
This guy or girl, wrote me a mediocre review a number of years ago in 2005, and strangely enough I got a lot of work on the back of that review. Some clients chose to come and see me out of idle curiousity,some thought the review was bollocks, and others liked my rebuttal.
The reality is that most clients do not read messageboards or reviews, so as an escort do not despair. It is hard for newbies to take this on board, but in time you will realise, that work comes in from various sources, and most people who will book you, make up their own minds.
There will always be sad bastards out there, but there are good guys too.
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